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Elopements + Weddings

Decide on Where

Where do you want to say your vows?

There are a ton of factors that will affect your elopement day, but picking your location is one of the biggest pieces of the puzzle that will determine the experience of your elopement day.


Your location should feel right for you—it should be somewhere you feel overwhelmingly happy, somewhere you feel absolutely alive, somewhere you know you and your partner can focus on each other and truly be in the moment. 

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What type of scenery do you and your partner feel connected to? What views fill you with a sense of happiness, inspiration, and peace? Where would feel the most “you” to say your vows? Remember back to your brainstorming stage of the process and what you two determined about your vision for your day. What scenery would fulfil that experience that you’re dreaming of?

Scenery & Views

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Factors to Consider When

How accessible your location is will greatly affect your elopement-day experience. What types of transportation are you and any potential guests willing to take to get to your spot? A long car ride? A bumpy 4x4 road? A helicopter? Are you (and any potential guests) excited about hiking to a location? Make sure you deeply consider what experience would be the most fun, relaxing and totally “you.” How accessible you want your spot to be can help you narrow down your location options. Also keep in mind any other guests that might be attending and their capacity to travel or hike.

Accessibility

In a perfect world—your elopement location would ideally have world-class postcard scenery, super easy accessibility, and total seclusion—but most of the time you usually have to prioritize two out of those three. Some locations that are easier to access usually have less privacy because of it. The general rule of thumb (although not a set rule) is that the further you are willing to travel, the more secluded your spot will probably be—so ask yourself how many people you would be comfortable having around or how much privacy you would be willing to give up for a Instagram-trending view. You can also find great seclusion at “hidden gem” locations that are just as gorgeous as the Instagram trendy spots—just less well known. Eloping at sunrise is another way to get more privacy at a typically busy spot.

Seclusion

Be intentional about the place you decide on and the significance it has to you now or could have to you in the future. Maybe it is a favorite place to travel to with your partner, a place you’ve always wanted to go, or a place that you could travel back to every year to celebrate your anniversary.

Meaning

Beyond saying your vows and taking portraits, what else do you want to do on your elopement day (or weekend or longer)? Whether you want to relax in a hammock between the trees, take a helicopter or float plane ride, go sailing, kayaking, paddleboarding, skiing, paragliding, wine tasting, or stargazing—some locations will lend themselves better to certain activities. When you are planning these activities as a part of your day and your overall trip, keep in mind realistically how long they will take and how long it might take to get from one to the next (with a buffer just in case)! If you have your heart set on a particular activity—this could help you narrow down where you choose to elope.

Experience & Activities

Do you want others to be involved in your elopement or just you and your partner? If you do opt to invite guests, be intentional with how many people you invite, aware of any accessibility or travel needs, and decide on how much of the day they will be involved in. Figuring out the number of guests involved is an important component of choosing a location since some locations have very specific limits on the number of guests that can be in attendance—but don’t be discouraged because there are gorgeous places out there that can accommodate more guests! Just be certain that you are setting realistic expectations with any guests in attendance about how much traveling is involved and how much they are going to be involved with your elopement day.  

I typically recommend large beaches for couples who want to elope with guests. You can legally have up 28 people but considering other vendors including myself and the officiant, I recommend 24 people or less. If you want more people, we can discuss a venue rather than a location in my guide that can accommodate a larger guest count.

Guests

You’ve chose to elope in the first place because you and your partner wanted to be true to your authentic selves and have a fun, stress-free day—so don’t pick a location that isn’t aligned with what you two know about yourselves and what you really enjoy doing together on an everyday basis. There are endless beautiful places in the world—so don’t feel any pressure to travel too far, hike too far, or do anything that isn’t you, just to get to a certain backdrop. The most important thing is that you two enjoy your day—so make sure the spot you pick and what’s required to get there, is aligned with that. 

Prioritize your experience

Can’t decide on a single spot for your elopement location? Then don’t! Going to more than one location is a really great way to get a ton of variety of scenery, activities, and experiences. If you two love touring around, sightseeing, and soaking in as much as possible—a multi-location elopement could be perfect for you! Also remember that you don’t have to fit your elopement experience into one single day—if there are several spots you want to visit and see together, don’t be afraid to spread your experience across more than one day. 

DON’T RULE OUT A MULTI-LOCATION ELOPEMENT

While it’s important to consider all of the factors that will help you narrow down to the most ideal elopement location—it’s just as important to think about backup locations. When deciding on your first choice location, remember that sometimes conditions can be unpredictable (like road closures or bad weather)—especially if you want to elope outdoors. Having a flexible attitude toward where exactly you end up saying your vows can really help your wedding day be perfect, no matter what circumstances you run into. I recommend noticing if there are any other locations you like, that can be used as backup options in the early stages of the planning process so you’ll feel super prepared in case they are needed. Don’t worry, we will go over this on the 6 week check in call! We typically only use back up locations in the case of torrential downpours being forecasted and needing to relocate to a drier side of the island. 

START THINKING ABOUT BACKUP LOCATIONS

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Tips For Picking The

Which Hawaiian Island is a Good Fit for Me?

Congratulations! You’ve decided to get married in Hawaii, how exciting! But now it is time to narrow down your choices and decide where exactly you might want to have your elopement or intimate wedding ceremony. Depending on you and your partner’s vibe, there is a Hawaiian island for you. Let’s explore the differences between the main islands in Hawaii, and what each one has to offer. 

What is Your Vision for Your Elopement Day?

Choosing to elope is such a special way of taking your wedding day back into your own hands. But what kind of backdrop and landscapes do you envision for your elopement? 

I get a large variety of requests and I LOVE all the backdrops the islands have to offer, so I am going to walk you through….feature by feature and let you know which islands offer this type of landscape, and which do not :) Hopefully this helps you narrow down which island is the best fit for you!

“Jurassic Park mountains” is something I have heard a lot of couples wishing for when it comes to the backdrop of their wedding ceremony. The older the island is, the more likely you'll get the “Jurassic Park” type of mountains – with texture and rugged geography. The oldest island in terms of geology is Kauai. There are some gorgeous beaches with mountains looming beautifully in the distance!

Oahu is also home to green mountains you might be after: located in Kualoa regional park or Kualoa ranch. These mountains are easily accessible for your elopement ceremony.

You can find some of these mountains in the west Maui mountains of Maui. The difference between the mountains here and in Kauai and Oahu is that in Maui, you can actually be in the mountains, but there aren’t many places for vast vantage points with the mountains as a backdrop on this island. The shots we’d get would be tighter, so keep that in mind.

You will not get those green chiseled mountains on The Big Island of Hawaii. But if you’re looking for lava flow, The Big Island of Hawaii has got your back.

If you want to see lava, the The Big Island of Hawaii is the only island with active volcanoes. The lava comes and goes depending on how active Kīlauea is. Be prepared that seeing the lava is never a guarantee, and the best time to see it is after sunset or at night because it’s easier for those red tones to come through. Bringing binoculars can really enhance your experience. During the day you are more likely to see steam but the landscapes within volcano national park are so unique and “mars-like” with lots of craters.

Volcano National Park is open 24/7 to check out the lava, so you can go anytime which is really nice and later in the evening to avoid crowds. You can also see the lava and national park by helicopter.

Black sand beaches? The Big Island of Hawaii and Maui. Maui it is difficult to get permits and the beaches are a little less accessible, while The Big Island of Hawaii has multiple to choose from. If a black sand beach is your number one priority I would recommend the Big Island over Maui. But if you really want to do the road to Hana and see other types of landscapes, Maui would be worth it!

Cliffs? Kauai has golden, epic cliffs that are easy to get to for your elopement. Another island where you will find lots of cliffs is Maui. The cliffs here are grassy and more expansive with super cool views. Oahu doesn’t have many cliffs for photography (the photos you may see on google have recently become illegal for photography….but these lookouts make a great adventure day for epic views of Oahu’s southern coastline). The Big Island of Hawaii has two areas with black lava rock cliffs, but these require local knowledge which I can help with!

If you are looking to have your ceremony or photographs above the clouds, the only island is Maui at Haleakala National Park. I love this area because it is very easy to drive up…no 4WD required. The views are incredible and while sunrise permits are hard to get, I am a HUGE fan of sunset on Haleakala. Haleakala is a dormant volcano, 10,023 feet above sea level. If you have children in your group or adults who may struggle with colder temperatures and lower oxygen levels, Haleakala may not be a good fit. But don’t worry if members of your group don’t want to hike, you can see many views as you drive up and you can park and stick to the outlooks rather than a hike and still get AMAZING views.

The Big Island of Hawaii is the only island where snow usually sticks…..on the slopes of Mauna Kea. I highly recommend visiting Mauna Kea while on island, but it is no longer a photography option due to requests from the Mauna Kea Center for Stewardship.

Mauna Kea on The Big Island of Hawaii is a dormant volcano that lies 13,803 feet above sea level and is not a national park. Keep in mind that access to Mauna Kea requires four wheel drive.

It is one of the most sacred points in Hawaii as it is the tallest point of all the Hawaiian islands. Out of all the islands, you are most likely to see and get snow on Mauna Kea usually during winter months after a large rain storm.

Mauna Loa on The Big Island of Hawaii is 13,679 feet above sea level. While you can see it from the highway (Saddle road), an eruption in November 2022 has made the road to Mauna Loa inaccessible.

Do you want to include a waterfall in your elopement day? You will find waterfalls on all of the islands, but will usually need a fee to access property if you want to do a ceremony. The Big Island of Hawaii boasts Kulaniapia Falls, but is more expensive than other waterfalls but honestly so incredible for photos and a ceremony site. The Big Island of Hawaii is also home to Akaka Falls (which is three times the height of Niagara Falls), and Rainbow Falls (you cannot hold ceremonies here but I recommend checking these out while in Hilo).

Maui has a waterfall we can access for a ceremony for a $100 fee (see my locations guide). The road to Hana in Maui is a must to stop off at all the waterfalls. This is not ideal for a ceremony though, because the road to Hana is quite crowded and hard to get a permit for a ceremony but it could be fun for more of an all-day experience.

Oahu has one waterfall we can legally access for a ceremony or photos after a ceremony. For elopements, I recommend doing your photos here afterwards, but for weddings and micro-weddings the venue fee makes more sense. There are random waterfalls that require muddy hikes to get to that are fun while you are visiting! You find them in guidebooks - if you are really interested, you can contact me!

Kauai has Wailua Falls to visit, and it’s a crazy but really fun hike! This location is not legal for ceremonies. To access this waterfall requires a steep and sometimes muddy scramble and I recommend it for a fun activity but not on elopement day. There is one legal waterfall to access for ceremonies but I am still working on private access with the owner of the property.

Overall, if you are wanting a waterfall ceremony, the best lighting and location is on The Big Island of Hawaii with Kulaniapia Falls. If you just want fun photos before/after and a waterfall is not your main priority then we can utilize the ones on the other islands but the lighting isn’t always as good because they are more forested.

Every Hawaiian island has white sand beaches if that is what you are after for your elopement! If you want a simple beach ceremony, I usually ask you where you are staying and then make recommendations closest to you that are also scenic and accessible. The only slight exception would be that on The Big Island of Hawaii, you are limited to Kona or Waikoloa (the west side of the island).

Island Insights

Below is a guide of different ceremony locations on each island. select an island to learn more!