There are a ton of factors that will affect your elopement day, but picking your location is one of the biggest pieces of the puzzle that will determine the experience of your elopement day.
Your location should feel right for you—it should be somewhere you feel overwhelmingly happy, somewhere you feel absolutely alive, somewhere you know you and your partner can focus on each other and truly be in the moment.
What type of scenery do you and your partner feel connected to? What views fill you with a sense of happiness, inspiration, and peace? Where would feel the most “you” to say your vows? Remember back to your brainstorming stage of the process and what you two determined about your vision for your day. What scenery would fulfil that experience that you’re dreaming of?
How accessible your location is will greatly affect your elopement-day experience. What types of transportation are you and any potential guests willing to take to get to your spot? A long car ride? A bumpy 4x4 road? A helicopter? Are you (and any potential guests) excited about hiking to a location? Make sure you deeply consider what experience would be the most fun, relaxing and totally “you.” How accessible you want your spot to be can help you narrow down your location options. Also keep in mind any other guests that might be attending and their capacity to travel or hike.
In a perfect world—your elopement location would ideally have world-class postcard scenery, super easy accessibility, and total seclusion—but most of the time you usually have to prioritize two out of those three. Some locations that are easier to access usually have less privacy because of it. The general rule of thumb (although not a set rule) is that the further you are willing to travel, the more secluded your spot will probably be—so ask yourself how many people you would be comfortable having around or how much privacy you would be willing to give up for a Instagram-trending view. You can also find great seclusion at “hidden gem” locations that are just as gorgeous as the Instagram trendy spots—just less well known. Eloping at sunrise is another way to get more privacy at a typically busy spot.
Be intentional about the place you decide on and the significance it has to you now or could have to you in the future. Maybe it is a favorite place to travel to with your partner, a place you’ve always wanted to go, or a place that you could travel back to every year to celebrate your anniversary.
Beyond saying your vows and taking portraits, what else do you want to do on your elopement day (or weekend or longer)? Whether you want to relax in a hammock between the trees, take a helicopter or float plane ride, go sailing, kayaking, paddleboarding, skiing, paragliding, wine tasting, or stargazing—some locations will lend themselves better to certain activities. When you are planning these activities as a part of your day and your overall trip, keep in mind realistically how long they will take and how long it might take to get from one to the next (with a buffer just in case)! If you have your heart set on a particular activity—this could help you narrow down where you choose to elope.
Do you want others to be involved in your elopement or just you and your partner? If you do opt to invite guests, be intentional with how many people you invite, aware of any accessibility or travel needs, and decide on how much of the day they will be involved in. Figuring out the number of guests involved is an important component of choosing a location since some locations have very specific limits on the number of guests that can be in attendance—but don’t be discouraged because there are gorgeous places out there that can accommodate more guests! Just be certain that you are setting realistic expectations with any guests in attendance about how much traveling is involved and how much they are going to be involved with your elopement day.
I typically recommend large beaches for couples who want to elope with guests. You can legally have up 28 people but considering other vendors including myself and the officiant, I recommend 24 people or less. If you want more people, we can discuss a venue rather than a location in my guide that can accommodate a larger guest count.
You’ve chose to elope in the first place because you and your partner wanted to be true to your authentic selves and have a fun, stress-free day—so don’t pick a location that isn’t aligned with what you two know about yourselves and what you really enjoy doing together on an everyday basis. There are endless beautiful places in the world—so don’t feel any pressure to travel too far, hike too far, or do anything that isn’t you, just to get to a certain backdrop. The most important thing is that you two enjoy your day—so make sure the spot you pick and what’s required to get there, is aligned with that.
Can’t decide on a single spot for your elopement location? Then don’t! Going to more than one location is a really great way to get a ton of variety of scenery, activities, and experiences. If you two love touring around, sightseeing, and soaking in as much as possible—a multi-location elopement could be perfect for you! Also remember that you don’t have to fit your elopement experience into one single day—if there are several spots you want to visit and see together, don’t be afraid to spread your experience across more than one day.
While it’s important to consider all of the factors that will help you narrow down to the most ideal elopement location—it’s just as important to think about backup locations. When deciding on your first choice location, remember that sometimes conditions can be unpredictable (like road closures or bad weather)—especially if you want to elope outdoors. Having a flexible attitude toward where exactly you end up saying your vows can really help your wedding day be perfect, no matter what circumstances you run into. I recommend noticing if there are any other locations you like, that can be used as backup options in the early stages of the planning process so you’ll feel super prepared in case they are needed. Don’t worry, we will go over this on the 6 week check in call! We typically only use back up locations in the case of torrential downpours being forecasted and needing to relocate to a drier side of the island.
Congratulations! You’ve decided to get married in Hawaii, how exciting! But now it is time to narrow down your choices and decide where exactly you might want to have your elopement or intimate wedding ceremony. Depending on you and your partner’s vibe, there is a Hawaiian island for you. Let’s explore the differences between the main islands in Hawaii, and what each one has to offer.
Choosing to elope is such a special way of taking your wedding day back into your own hands. But what kind of backdrop and landscapes do you envision for your elopement?
I get a large variety of requests and I LOVE all the backdrops the islands have to offer, so I am going to walk you through….feature by feature and let you know which islands offer this type of landscape, and which do not :) Hopefully this helps you narrow down which island is the best fit for you!